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now i lay me down to sleep

Wednesday, October 1st, 2008

I don’t know why I am so sleepy today. Seriously. i just could not get out of bed this morning, and it was all I could do to not just nap when I got home (because i knew I wouldn’t get up). I even skipped my workout today, because I couldn’t get out of bed this morning 🙁 I’m trying not to beat myself up about it, but since I am still quite the beginner, it is hard not to!!
I need to really fight this night owl thing!! I must start getting into bed before 10 each night, especially since I can’t seem to stay asleep.
On the brighter side??
I ran my first 5K!!! Saturday was the Step Out to Fight Diabetes. I ran it in 30’22”. Better than I expected. Originally, I wanted to be under 30 minutes, but that changed as I realized that this was my first run, and I should just enjoy finishing. However, something about the event, and the course, and other runners, and it all came together. I felt really relaxed, and the miles flew by. I didn’t have to take any walk breaks, I wasn’t getting winded, it was AWESOME!
We spent the rest of that day at RenFest, and I let myself just enjoy some treats I can only get there. It was a really lovely day.
Now, I am in training for the half marathon. I am reading Jeff Galloway’s Half Marathon book. I am already learning tons. I am using my two regular runs to work on my endurance, increasing my times each week by 10% until I am at 60 minutes of continuous running (this will take about 9 weeks). I will also use these runs to work on technique. Then I do one long run each Sunday. These mostly increase up in distance, with some shorter runs to mix things up. These are where I have to work on my walk breaks. Since it is my first half marathon, I shouldn’t plan to run the whole thing, and not have a time goal. I have to keep reminding myself of that. I am excited to build up my running. I am hoping this will help losing some fat in my trouble zones.
I am glad I started this before I enter the next decade. While I will be in better shape in my thirties than in my twenties, at least I can say that in my twenties, I was in the best shape of my life…if only for part of them!!!
(I also have to say, in non fitness news…I just finished cleaning my kitchen. I took things out of cupboards and wiped them down, and tossed things, and cleaned the cupboard doors. Serious cleaning…it feels good! Hopefully this will encourage my eating to match my fitness!!)

can’t help it…

Sunday, August 10th, 2008

..but for once I feel like I actually got something done today! I managed to finish week 2 of both the C25K and 100 pushup challenge. I went grocery shopping and got food to make breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks all week (which should help both the budget, and the waistline). I cleaned the fridge (which was ickier than I thought…my apologies to anyone who’s been in it). I weeded and did most of the prep in the garden bed I am moving all my non-echinacea plants into (I just need to move a bit of dirt into the low spots from the pile that was left from putting in our walk). I divided up and planted the hosta my coworker gave me. I did a few loads of laundry, and am almost through the giant laundry pile, which includes Lollapalooza laundry. I did another post in my Lollapalooza blog adventures (two more days of fun to go!)
Now, I am about to cycle another load of laundry, start my crock pot of chili, and get my things ready for work tomorrow. I may even make it to bed at a reasonable hour!!!!
If only I could be this motivated all the time!

things to do, things to do…

Monday, July 28th, 2008

So, in just a couple of short months, I will be having what some refer to as a milestone birthday. The number isn’t so much of what bothers me, it’s what I’ve done with my life thus far. It’s not that I’m unhappy with where I am, I just wonder why I’ve stopped myself from doing some of the things I’ve dreamed of doing. So, I figured that this pending birthday was a great deadline to set for myself to check some things off of the ol’ to do list. There are some things that I won’t be able to do, just because of silly things like once-a-year events, but I will put those at the bottom of my list to do within the coming year. Silly? Yes, very. However, if I don’t give myself a deadline and stick to it, I will procrastinate forever. (see sewing stash in closet)
So, without further ado, here’s the list (subject to addition):
1) Run 5k consistently (not as events, as distances around the hood. I’ve never been able to run much more than a mile in my entire life…this will be huge for me!!)
2) Weigh 128 pounds (I did, once. It was glorious. I wasn’t in my teens either. I figure that number one will help me with that)
3) Have two tattoos. (These go along with number 2, when I hit that weight, I will have two tats. Eventually it will hit three, though that might be shortly after the b-day.)
4) Build up stock and start an Etsy store, and sell at least one item. (this is a pretty massive item!! Big challenge, but worth it)
5) Get into hot blue vinyl pants (one and two are crucial here)
6) Have an amount, which I will write down so I know it, but will not disclose publicly, in my savings account.
Things I will do in the year following (as I didn’t think of this in time)
*Audition at the Guthrie Generals
*Audition for at least three of the paying gigs in town (as in really paying, not stipend paying)
That’s all I can think of right now. I am off to begin on that first goal. EEEEE! Scary, yet exciting!

getting my butt in gear

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

So, I often talk about crafting (of various forms) and how I miss doing it, and wish I did more of it, but I only need to do a millionty other things first. Well, thanks to some fabulous friends, with fabulous ideas, I am actually crafting again! I have completed one rather complicated project, and one simple one, with at least three more in the pipeline to be completed in the next two weeks!! Craziness!
Also, I have another blog. It is about said crafting, and will soon have a store where you can buy gear with our awesome logo, and soon hand crafted wares!! Please check it out by clicking the link below. We hope it turns into something big!!
Procraftination

it’s a boy!

Saturday, March 22nd, 2008

Allow me to introduce Sir Alonzo Bigglesworth!
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We were not planning to adopt a kitty for quite some time. However, our next cat was going to be a Persian or a Sphinx, and this guy popped up. His owner’s blindness is worsening, and she felt she couldn’t care for him as he deserved. So, we got a two-year-old, fifteen pound Persian (not fat, just BIG) with all of his stuff. He is very laid back, and lays low, and so far seems to be making himself at home.
We renamed him Alonzo, based on an episode of Doctor Who (series two), then added the last name, and I decided he must have been knighted at some point.
I just feel very badly for his previous owner, I can’t imagine living alone and having to give up my kitty.

easy peasy lemon squeezy

Saturday, February 2nd, 2008

So, after a mere three years, I decided it was high time to reupholster our dining room chairs. Part of the wait involved the expense of materials for said reupholstering. Thanks to Martin Luther King, Jr., JoAnn Etc. (formerly JoAnn Fabrics) had a two-day only sale extravaganza, involving half off both the foam and the fabric needed for the task. So, foam and fabric were purchased. A stop was made to Menard’s, where wood glue and strap clamps were purchased.
We were so ready.
A day was spent gluing the broken chairs. (a big apology to G’s brother, who will no longer be able to trick unassuming guests by moving the chair with the broken back around the table).
Today, I decided was d-day for the actual reupholstery. Armed with pliers and a screwdriver, I began to pull off the old upholstery and padding (discovering, in the process, that the original color of the fabric was actual a rather vibrant pink). The first plywood base doesn’t look good. At least one of the corners is disintegrated. Ever optimistic, I move to the next chair. This piece is pretty cracked along one side, and thus the piece is rather weak and flexible. Now erring on the side of pessimism, I am pretty sure we are going to be purchasing some new plywood. On one hand, big PITA. On the other, if I’m already investing this much time and effort into the project, I may as well do it right, right?
So, in short, after I thought I had already cleared the major hurdle, I haven’t even started the race.
Boo!!
So, if you come over for dinner, I can guarantee we will be sitting on the sofa.

how does this happen???!??

Sunday, November 11th, 2007

So, I just spent a large chunk of my evening sorting the Everest of laundry that has built up in our second bathroom. I sorted it in the hallway, since if I keep the piles at the outer edges, we can still walk down the center if we walk very carefully. If I were able to do each sorted pile as one load, not including the handwash stuff that I left in the hamper, I have seventeen loads right now. There are at least two piles that will need to be done as two, maybe three loads. Also, a load each in the washer and dryer.
Keep in mind that there are only two of us, not including the fur children.
Now, there are only two loads that I would need to do, tops, over the next week for us to not be naked in some way.
My only conclusion is that we just plain have too much stuff.
What I don’t understand is how I keep dropping off massive loads at Goodwill (Garbage bags and shipping boxes), yet, our place still seems jam packed. Does our stuff mate? Do little laundry babies pop up at the bottom of the pile while we are sleeping? I just don’t understand how this happened. Especially since if one were to open any drawer of my dresser, it would not seem overly sparse. Craziness, I tell you, craziness.

…and breathe.

Monday, November 5th, 2007

Eeps. So, I was totally going to do the version of NaNoWriMo that I did last year, and write in my blog every day in November, until I realized that amongst the gajillion things I have been trying to get done over the last two weeks, it is well into the first week of November. So, here I start, five days late, with a recap of why I have been so gosh darned elusive.
So, let’s start off with the big birthday. Ten days ago, I turned the big Two-Five. Yes, you read that correctly. Shup.
So, of course, my annual golden birthday bash had to be thrown, and this year it was held in conjunction with my dear friend Creamer’s non-golden twenty-fifth. In order to throw said party, we had to get our kitchen squared away, and get the bulk of the hizouse clean in order to have guests. Pretty much all free moments leading up to the party on the 26th was spent working on house stuff. We got the kitchen finished (outside of some baseboard moulding), and it is pretty sweet. Now, if I can keep up on the dishes, we’ll be good to go. Lucifer has been pretty pissed as that closed access to one of his ceiling entry points, but them’s the brakes. Cats don’t belong in ceilings, yo.
We were also able to get he house presentable. Seeing the state the place was in about an hour into the party, I am not sure why I was so concerned. I am still finding sticky spots on the floor after roughly twenty moppings over the last week. Anyhow, it was overall a fun time. Once again I managed to consume no solid food over the course of the night, meaning I missed out on yummy Cabernet soaked cheddar cheese, my awesome grim reaper birthday cake, and Creamer’s ice cream cake. Boo. I did however, have lots of yummy mojito, cosmo, and wine.
My friends are generally pretty awesome. I made off with some mad loot. Zusy got me a raven bank, complete with a Euro in its tummy. Hennifer got me a RED moleskine planner for 2008 (which I LOVE), a bag of Gin-gins (which has mysteriously gone missing…anybody?), some fancy chrysanthemum tea, a bottle of Cranberry wine, and a Mr. Mustard card (which is ridiculously cool). Benq and Everlastingwhy hooked my up with a fortune cookie 8-ball that answers questions with things like, “you don’t won ton know,” a “bling” ice cube tray, and wine glass stem flags that proclaim things like, “WOOZY.” (I wonder which is my fave??) G got me the new Tori cd, which I didn’t have yet, so I could listen up before I see her LIVE from the FRONT ROW. The pair of us received an adorable card from Mrs. Self Destruct with a long haired chihuahua on the front. A couple of friends from work made what would have been a sucktacular day at work pleasant by surprising me with treats in the form of a cookie monster and a Frankenstein’s monster cake. Then, they came to my party and presented me with a bouquet of purpley black roses and a squirrel creamer. I have a bunch of pretty cool people in my life.
That being said, I don’t know that I want to have that huge of a party again. Our house and patio were crammed solid at one point, which is fine. What was not fine was that lots of people didn’t respect our boundaries. Generally, we can have a closed door or two, and our friends leave well enough alone. Some people I didn’t know very well (being a joint party, and all) didn’t have that sort of respect. Our office became, um, well, the make-out spot (to put it politely). I wouldn’t have minded quite so much if a)we were all in high school and b) if it wasn’t where I had all my projects, and all of our stuff we have (well, had) sorted to go sell on e-bay and Craig’s list. However, since I am a skosh older than 16, and I have spent the last ten days sorting through what became a pile in the middle of the floor, I am annoyed. I was annoyed when one of the cast members of the show I’m costuming (more on that later) pulled trash (such as fun-sized candy wrappers) out of his jacket pocket at dress rehearsal. I am sitll annoyed that my glasses are missing, when I left them with stuff I was sewing.
Serenity now. Lesson learned. I now know where my limits are. Spilled drinks on a mop able surface okay.
Tossing my stuff around, not okay.
The day after the party, I was supposed to go look in on rehearsal and go to a scrapbook crop with my dear LaLa. However, I had a bitchin’ tension headache. I thought it was hangover, but it most definitely was not. As a result, I lounged all day Saturday, and we went to the club late that night, and left early. I still was headachey on Sunday, and most of Monday. Stupid headache.
Anyhow, I survived the B-day, and another year of lord-knows-what.
LAst week was spent getting my ducks-in-a-row for the show I’ve been working on. It was a little tense at some moments, making sure everyone had everything, and some miscommunication with my assistant at the zero hour, but we made it through. Everyone has ideal or nearly ideal costumes. I was nervous working on seven people (it’s been a while since I’ve had to do a large show), as I figured I would have seven egos to deal with. However, everyone was really easy. I didn’t get any of the sass I usually get. (The last of which nearly made me swear of costuming entirely.) I thought everyone looked pretty darn good if I do say so myself. The show opened to a pretty happy group on Saturday. Now, I just need to total up my receipts, return the few things that wound up being not needed, settle up the budget, and wait for the show to close, and divvy up what’s mine and what’s the theater’s. I like costuming, but I think the next time I do it, maybe it should be when I have less on my plate.
Otherwise, it’s my day job. I like it…but, it’s been stressful. Like today when I get a call from one of my departments asking a question that I have answered multiple times already. In fact, I even put it on the department’s log so that everyone could read it. Yet, they keep asking the same question. This is really the least annoying part. I just finished redoing a department, to be told to redo half of it again, because they want to move some things. (nevermind how hard it was to get the stuff installed the first time). This is in between finishing up a remodel, and planning another remodel. And I am not to change any due dates. Despite the fact that my partners aren’t doing squat. Grrr. At least I am pretty sure it has been noted that the all talk people have been noted, and the fact that we are getting a reward for the first project on our department’s docket getting completed.
I think that’s about it. I should probably take advantage of my “free time” and do some laundry and try and pick up more of our office. I am also hoping the hubby calls soon and we eat din-din. I should be back tomorrow!

my plate is officially full….

Monday, March 12th, 2007

…which may have something to do with the strange sounds coming from my tummy.
So, yeah, where was I?
Australia.
No really….this is what my mind is reduced to. I can’t complete a coherent thought at the moment. I think I need to sit down and make a list, yet, I feel like that would waste precious time that would be better served elsewhere.
anyhow, you kids probably have noticed that I’m in a show. when I am adequately convinced I don’t suck, I shall give the world the deets. Last week, I was asked to costume said show. I accepted the position. I haven’t costumed in a long while, so it should be fun. The only downside, is that I much more enjoy playing with clothes than say, remodeling.
Which brings me to the other portion of my plate. The kitchen. It is still going a bit slower than I would like. However, we officially have a deadline now. I invited my family to come out and stay with us for Easter. Due to the show, I can’t go to them, so I thought it would be fun to have them come to us. They accepted, and now we must have the kitchen done, and the house clean and beautiful for guests by Good Friday. This is fine, because left to our own deadline-free devices, we would otherwise be lucky to have the darn thing done by my birthday.
Hey, at least I cleared the second job from my plate!
I have also managed to find some time for fun. We saw 300 over the weekend, and I promise to give you a review of it later. For now I shall tell you, It was awesome. We also made it out dancing on Saturday. We even went out for late night snacks afterward, and stayed up until the wee hours. Hurrah!!
To close, I will point out that I have realized that while a lot of shitty people may cross my path, I am blessed by all the awesome people who choose to stick around for the journey.
And now, I must paint.

red, white, and blue…

Friday, February 16th, 2007

Well, I’m officially done with the red paint. I made my last touch ups, and threw away the tray liner and roller. I just didn’t want to deal with washing that shite. Anyhow, the entryway is lovely red. I began priming the kitchen, and hopefully can get some paint on that bad boy tomorrow.
We also ripped up the hallway carpet. Good riddance. I would have done a cartwheel on the revealed subfloor, but felt that I might injure myself or a loved one, so we settled for a mental cartwheel. On the downside, we do have to replace a portion of the subflloor. We expected we would, but hoped that somehow we wouldn’t have to. We pulled up the first half of the portion we are replacing. I decided to pull out the trusty shop vac to suck up the dirt and junk that had been sealed between. I got halfway through, and the shop vac kept sucking up dirt. Lots and lots of dirt. I realized I was creating a hole. A hole in the part of the floor that is just dirt. I mean really, why would one want to make sure there was a bed of all concrete before laying the floor? Moisture barrier? What? So, we’ll have to pour some concrete. We’ll probably go ahead and put some plastic down while we have that chunk open. As my dad said, “where was the building inspector???” Where indeed.
Since we have the ceiling completely ripped out in the kitchen and entry, Lucifer has taking to tightrope walking on the exposed pipes, wires, and cables. While I was priming the kitchen (the part that will be behind the fridge if you are concerned), I was bent over getting the bottom of the wall. Suddenly, “WHOOMPF!” Something somewhat soft landed on the back of my head, then slid to the floor. It was a rather pissed off Lu. Apparently he lost his balance on his little tightrope walk. Guess he’s not ready to work without a net. He also has some white hairs on his tail from brushing the wall. That darn cat. Good thing he is small and furry, because the experience didn’t feel good. Couldn’t imagine if he was large. Or not furry.
Anyhow, we are making progress. Slowly, but surely. As we keep hitting setbacks, it makes me tell myself more and more that it will be such a miraculous transformation. I keep telling myself how much more storage we’ll have, and how organized it will be. Part of me worries it will let me down, or something won’t work out. However, for the pain in the ass, it should be miraculous.
I think the disaster area that is our home is part of what’s been making me feel so down lately. When you don’t have a lot of room to begin with, then you pull nearly everything out of one room into other parts of the house, then bring a bunch of other stuff in so that you can put that stuff back…well, it makes for close quarters. Every inch is stuffed. It is impossible to set anything down much less put it away. It’s tough to move…even the cats are grouchy. Forgive me for sounding all new-agey and whatnot, but it is making for some bad energy. Couple that with job annoyances, and the fact that I’ve put on a few pounds, and it makes for an unhappy Raven. The few pounds are annoying because when I gain weight, it hurts. My wee bones get all grouchy, my joints decide to give me hell, and my muscles cramp and seize and all sorts of fun. It is not helping that I don’t have my space to workout right now, and it is too cold for me to feel like going for a walk. On the bright side, I put in my notice at my part-time job yesterday. It took a lot of thinking on my part, and building up my nerve, but I think those few extra hours every week will make a big difference.
So, yesterday was the big V-Day. It was a pretty romantic day. I worked both jobs, and got to see G for about half of an hour. Fortunately, we already celebrated. We decided to celebrate on sunday. Since we have had zero time, I suggested that we just do our shopping together. Great minds think alike, and we found we were planning on shopping at the same store. We had to stop at two locations, but we got what we were after. I got G this:
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And he got me this:
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Ahhh…geek love. We also decided on extra gifts once we were out. Hot Topic had their Nightmare Before Christmas stuff on clearance, and I saw a great jacket for Geoff. He’s been wanting a hoodie type jacket, and there was a pretty cool one. I pointed it out, it was super soft…so I thought it would make a nice second thing for him. He found the Jack Skellington hoodie I’d been wanting but thought was too pricey. It is black and very dark grey striped with a big Jack Skellington face appliquéd on the front. Wicked cute. We then saw the perfect hoodie for Geoff. Despite it being full price, it was way more awesome than the Jack one, so I made him try it on. I had been planning on getting him a different hoodie previous to our excursion, but apparently this was in their new batch of merchandise. Seriously it was too perfect…
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Megatron versus Optimus Prime. Even though it will be in July, I am totally making him wear it to the Transformers movie when we go to the midnight opening. Well, let’s be honest, I don’t think I will have to make him.
We did buy some non V-day presents. I finally found a wallet I liked:
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I got some new mats for my car and a steering wheel cover, we got G some batman boxer briefs, and some stuff for a friend.
We then took a romantic trip to the pharmacy to pick up a prescription, and popped home. We changed into our dork twin ensembles, and headed to the Olive Garden. (don’t knock it. That’s some tasty food, and reasonably priced) Then we headed to the Chatterbox Pub. Which, side tangent here. There is a restaurant half and a bar half. Both halves have gaming consoles, and you can check out board games for either half. We arrived early to meet our friends, and thought we would kill time with some old-school nintendo. Since we were going to do karaoke when it started, we thougt we could stake out our sofas and get going. However, some lovely parents apparently mistook “console games” for “babysiter.” There were three kids. Apparently they needed to use all three TVs in the bar. One of the kind servers said he would check into it, because they’d been taking up the space for a long time (mind you this included two full-size sofas, a loveseat, and four armchairs that were around the three TVs). It was a no-go. The kids really needed all three TVs. Fine. We took one of the restaurant sets, with the understanding that we would move when the brats left. I tossed my coat and purse on the sofa and headed for ladies. As I walked through the bar, I saw the kids. One was at the table with the parents, completely on the other side of the bar from the consoles…the parents wouldn’t even have been able to see the kids at the damn consoles. Not to mention, I could tell the dad was trying to get the kid to go back to the other children (the oldest of which was maybe 10) One was playing with the Golden Tee machine, and one was actually playing a console. The other two were just left at the intro screens of the games. Needed all the TVs my ass. First of all, if you want to go to a bar and drink and have the kids out of your hair…hire a freaking babysitter. If you think your kids would have fun playing games, sit with them. Pay attention to them, and have some courtesy for the other patrons. People piss me off. Especially parents who don’t think they actually have to parent or be held accountable for their children’s actions.
Anyhow, eventually the brat pack left, and we moved to our sofas in time for karaoke. The rest of the night consisted of hanging with our friends, playing some tetris, and singing some songs. I discovered that I am really not cut out to sing Morrissey. However, I also discovered that the KJ had Vanity 6…so I made up for my lack of Morrissey talent by rocking out with that. So, the night turned out pretty well.
We ended the night by curling up in bed and watching The Apprentice LA. Perfect for a couple of dorks like us.